Co-parenting, made calm · built in the UK

Two homes. One calm place for everything.

ParentGlow is the warm, reliable home for your family's calendar, messages, expenses and child info — built for separated parents in the UK, and for the kids at the centre of it all.

  • One family plan — both parents
  • Free data export, forever
  • GDPR-first & UK-built
ParentGlow calendar showing colour-coded parenting time for October 2026 and the next handover card

Next handover · Mon 12 October

5:00pm · Rachel → Mark

Tone Guard ON

Flags wording that might read as heated

Settled this month

£38.25 agreed

DD/MM/YYYY dates✦ £ GBP expenses✦ UK bank holidays✦ NHS numbers✦ School term time✦ Child arrangements orders✦ Court-ready records✦ GDPR-first✦ UK English, always✦

Why ParentGlow exists

Parenting apart is hard enough.

The tools most separated parents are handed make it harder. Group chats that escalate. Spreadsheets that scatter. Court-mandated portals that feel like punishment — built for a different era, priced per parent, charging you to download your own records.

ParentGlow starts from a different place. It assumes good intent. It keeps the child at the centre. And it quietly records what was agreed — so neither of you has to.

  • Assumes good intent

    Designed to lower the temperature, not gather ammunition.

  • Keeps the child at the centre

    Every screen is about their week, their health, their world.

  • Quietly keeps the record

    A permanent record of what was said and agreed — there if you need it.

A bench under a tree at golden hour, two kites flying over the valley

Less friction.
Less conflict.
A clear record.

The whole idea, really.

What we agreed

Pulled live from your schedule and expenses

Pattern
Alternating weeks, term time
Handover
9:00am
Who drives
The parent ending the stay
Costs
50/50 unless agreed otherwise
Over £50
Agreed first

Agreed between you

Inside the app

One glance, and you know.

Four jobs every two-home family juggles — handled in one warm place.

The schedule

Who has the kids — always one glance away.

Alternating weeks, 2-2-3, every-other-weekend or your own pattern — projected a year ahead and colour-coded by parent. Handovers, school holidays and UK bank holidays are all in the same view.

Need to swap a weekend? Change requests carry a full audit trail — request, approve, counter-offer or trade days, without a single heated text.

  • Schedule patterns + custom
  • Change requests
  • Handover cards
  • UK bank holidays
  • Parenting-time stats
  • iCal sync
ParentGlow calendar with colour-coded parenting time and next-handover card

The conversation

Messages that stay calm — and on the record.

Every message is permanent. No edits, no deletions, read receipts on both sides — so the conversation stays honest, and so does the history.

And when a reply comes out sharper than you meant it, Tone Guard flags it as you type, and a calmer version is one tap away if you want it. You decide what sends.

  • Tone Guard
  • Cannot be edited
  • Read receipts
  • Handover history
  • Photo attachments
  • Message search
ParentGlow messages thread with Tone Guard on

The money

Shared costs, settled without the awkward chat.

Log it, split it, agree it — in pounds, with the receipt photo attached. Recurring templates carry the karate club and the prescriptions; monthly statements keep both sides square.

And if you ever need it, every ledger exports to a court-ready PDF: complete, dated and in order. Hopefully you won't.

  • Settle-up requests
  • Recurring costs
  • Monthly statements
  • Receipt photos
  • Tagged by child
  • Court-pack PDF
ParentGlow expenses showing £22.50 awaiting agreement and recent shared costs

The details

Every allergy, GP and gold-band reading level — in both homes.

Allergies with severity. Medications and vaccinations. GP, NHS numbers, school contacts, documents with expiry reminders. One shared record both parents can trust — no more “it's on my phone somewhere”.

Give the people who help a safe way in: a sitter link shares your child's essentials with a grandparent, sitter or childminder for a set time, read-only, with no account to create. Print an Emergency Card: one A4 page with allergies, medication and who to call, so the printed copy works even with no signal.

  • Emergency Card
  • Allergies & meds
  • Document vault
  • Care log
  • Moments
  • Sitter links
ParentGlow family hub with essentials, documents, emergency card and contacts
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Not ready for an app? Our free co-parenting guides are practical, UK-focused, and yours to keep. Or try our free tools for planning and building a parenting plan.

And quietly, so much more

The small things that carry the big days.

One school day across two homes, and the quiet jobs ParentGlow does between breakfast and bedtime.

  1. The inhaler, before school.

    Both homes get the reminder. Whoever gives the dose taps Given, and it's ticked off for you both. No double doses, no “did you?” texts.

  2. Handover at the school gate.

    PE kit still at the other house? Tap Forgot something? and it goes on the next handover's list, marked as coming back. One tap on Handed over notes when it really happened. Only you can see it.

    How handovers work
  3. A sharp reply, caught in time.

    Tone Guard flags wording that might read as heated, and a calmer version is a tap away. You choose whether to use it, change it or ignore it. Nothing is sent until you press send.

  4. Gran's doing pick-up.

    Send her a sitter link: allergies, medicines and who to call, read-only from 3pm to 7pm, then it ends on its own. No account to make. The Emergency Card is one A4 page for her bag, and the paper copy needs no signal.

    How sitter links work

All of it, quietly, for the kids at the centre of it all.

  1. Your phone goes quiet.

    Pick the hours ParentGlow stays quiet. Message and handover alerts are skipped, not saved up, so there's no morning flood. Nothing is lost, and your co-parent never sees your hours. Severe-allergy and rescue-medicine reminders still come through.

    How quiet hours work
  2. The thing you needed to write down.

    Your journal is author-only. Your co-parent can't see it, and nor can any professional either of you invites. It's for the things you need to write down, not send.

Also in the app

  • Birthdays and key dates, with a week's notice
  • Special days that take turns each year
  • A one-tap thanks
  • School term dates for your council
  • A calendar link for your phone
  • Photo locations removed
See every feature

From our early-access families

Built for the hard days, so the good ones stay good.

“The handover used to be the worst part of my week. Now it's a card on a screen — not an argument on a doorstep.”

LauraDudley, West Midlands

“My solicitor asked for six months of records. It took me four taps.”

Markdad of one, Bristol

“It's the first app that doesn't treat me like a suspect.”

Clairemum of three, Leeds

From real parents on our early-access programme — product testers who agreed to be quoted. Some names have been changed for their privacy.

Free, forever to download your family's records
One family plan covers both of you — never a fee per parent
Word for word no quiet edits, no deleted messages
Made for the UK pounds, NHS numbers and UK family law

Why ParentGlow

You shouldn't need a court portal from 2006.

The best-known co-parenting apps grew up around American courts, and three of them still charge each parent separately. Most UK families make do with a group chat instead. Here's how both compare.

What a year costs two homes

On each app's cheapest yearly plan. Prices checked on 12 October 2026.

  1. OurFamilyWizard £215.98£107.99 for each parent
  2. AppClose £129.98£64.99 for each parent, on the web
  3. ParentGlow £59.99One plan covers you both, at launch

TalkingParents bills in US dollars: $154 a year for two parents on its cheapest plan. 2houses (£99 a year) and amicable (£59.99 a year) charge once per family, as we do. ParentGlow is free during early access, then £59.99 a year or £5.99 a month.

Sources: OurFamilyWizard, AppClose, TalkingParents, 2houses and amicable. Prices change, so check before you rely on one.

Next to a group chat and a spreadsheet

The everyday job ParentGlow Group chat and spreadsheet
Whose weekend it is One calendar both homes share, with your council's school terms already in “Whose weekend is it again?”
What was said Kept word for word: no edits, no deletions, and you both see when it was read Edited, deleted or lost up the thread
The 11pm reply Tone Guard flags it as you type, with a calmer version a tap away Sent before anyone's slept on it
Who owes what Split in pounds, receipt attached, marked settled when it's paid IOUs, bank screenshots and resentment
What you agreed One page, pulled live from your schedule and costs Somewhere in a thread from March
Gran's afternoon A sitter link that ends on its own, and an Emergency Card to print Forwarded screenshots and a hurried phone call
If it ever goes further A court-ready record pack, free, dated and in order Screenshots and scrolling

Fair's fair: OurFamilyWizard has been around since 2001 and is well known to UK courts, and it and AppClose include in-app calls, which ParentGlow doesn't have yet. For the detail, see ParentGlow against OurFamilyWizard, AppClose, TalkingParents, 2houses and amicable, or what it means to be built for the UK.

Getting started

Calm by the weekend.

Ten quiet minutes tonight. A paired-up co-parent by Friday. A weekend that runs itself.

  1. Create your family

    Add the kids, your schedule pattern and the essentials — ten quiet minutes with a cup of tea.

  2. Invite your co-parent

    They enter your six-character code and ask to join, and you approve them. They see the shared record, never your private notes.

  3. Let it carry the admin

    Handovers, costs and records quietly tick along — receipts kept for you, not by you.

Pricing

One family plan. No per-parent tax.

Charging each parent separately punishes families for being separated. So we don't.

Early access

Freewhile we build together

  • Full access for both parents
  • Calendar, messages, expenses and family record
  • Court-ready export tools included
  • Founding families help shape the roadmap
  • Families on the early-access list get the lower founding price for longer once plans start
Join early access

One family plan at launch

£5.99/mocovers both parents

or £59.99/year · save ~£12

  • Join early: a lower founding price for your first months, then the standard price
  • Covers both parents in one family space
  • One price for both homes
  • Full access for invited co-parent
  • Sitter links for grandparents and sitters, included
  • Free export of your family record
  • No certified-record fees
  • Cancel anytime; your data stays yours
Read the FAQ

For professionals opening soon

Invitedread-only access, controlled by you

  • Invite your solicitor to read the record
  • They see what you choose — never your journal
  • Both of you can see who has access
  • Access ends the moment you say so
How professional access works

Paid family spacefull active features

If your plan endsplanning and messages pause. Past records stay readable for 30 days, export is free at any time, and your children's allergies, critical medicines and emergency contacts stay viewable. Renew whenever you like and everything comes back.

Built with care in the UK · GDPR-first · your family's data is never sold

Questions, answered

The things parents ask us first.

Anything else? We're a friendly email away.

hello@parentglow.co.uk
Will my records stand up in court?

ParentGlow isn't legal-advice software — but it's built so your records can be trusted. Messages and handover notes are permanent, with read receipts. Critical changes are written to a tamper-evident SHA-256 integrity chain. And when you need to share, your export is court-ready: complete, dated and in order. Under the March 2026 rules, messages, photos and recordings usually stay out of the court bundle unless the judge asks for them; if they're needed, yours are ready. What's used, and the weight it carries, is always the court's decision.

Do both parents have to pay?

No. One subscription covers your whole family — both homes, every feature. We think charging each parent separately punishes families for being separated, so we simply don't do it. Sitter links for grandparents and sitters: read-only, time-limited, no account, at no extra cost. No “per-seat” anything.

What if my co-parent won't join (yet)?

Start alone. Set up the schedule, the children's details and the expenses on your own — it all works single-handed. When they're ready, they enter your invite code and ask to join, and once you approve them they're stitched into the shared record from that day forward. No pressure, no nagging emails from us.

Can my co-parent see my private notes?

No. Your journal is author-only, and care-log entries can be marked “only me” — filtered on the server, not just hidden on the screen. Everything that is shared is clearly labelled, so you always know what the other home can see.

Is my family's data safe?

It's the whole foundation. GDPR-first design, server-side authorisation on every request, no third-party analytics that identify you, and audit trails on critical actions. And the promise that matters most: exporting your data is free, forever — it's your family's record, not ours.

Is it really built for the UK?

Properly. DD/MM/YYYY dates, £ GBP, UK bank holidays, NHS numbers with real validation, and the language of UK family law — contact time, child arrangements orders, parental responsibility. You'll never see “custody” or “visitation” in ParentGlow.

Which platforms, and when can I get it?

iOS and Android. ParentGlow is currently in early access with UK families — join the list below and you'll get a welcome email, occasional updates while we build, and one email when it's your turn. Unsubscribe any time.

Bring the calm home.

Early access is rolling out across the UK now. A hello now, the odd update while we build, and one email when it's your turn.

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